After some thought, I'd like to summarize and reword why I started this thread, as thus:
"I'm having a hard time lately in real life, for many reasons not even slightly related to any internet forums. That said, some people - they know who - have been delighting in being hateful, moronic and twattish, in what is either a completely misguided attempt to 'right' the leaving of many folks from WoS, or just a very bored/boring personal trolling. Much of this is via PM, probably because they know that someone else would delete it. It's abated now that the heat's died off a bit, but still, getting the occasional deeply unpleasant message (on here, WoS, and RLLMUK), is getting a bit much. I would appreciate it please if people would stop therefore with the hilarious 'CUS is a cunt!' running joke, thanks. Occasional use is okay and stuff, I just ask for a bit of rational thinking.
Also, based on some PMs I received yesterday and this morning, from lovely concerned people, let me just say also that "No, it's not 'because of that thing you said', and really, if simply posting at and moderating this forum was itself what was upsetting me, then I would simply leave, as the easiest solution.
The timing of this all just really sucks, anyway. I apologise for being a bit more '...GNGGGHH!!!' than usual in the last couple of days. Also, please note that I mentally insert 'But that's just my opinion, and you're entitled to yours of course, what is it?' after everything I say, so if you see a comment of mine and think 'Well, that's a rather definite thing to say, how dare he!', please remember that I *also* am entitled to my opinion. Also that my sense of humour is often very dry. I don't stoop and hide to call you a cunt, I'd paint it across your front door, as it were."
Or something. Everyone's allowed a big 'AAARGH FUCK *sob* hlp plz' fall-down.