Also, my Nan somehow moved all of the furniture out of the room herself, two days beforehand, and is slowly putting everything back into place today, so she wasn't even helped with those things, so it wasn't as if anyone was going out of their way to be helpful. My nan is 86, not in the best health and has one arm. I had to tell her off over the phone yesterday and say to leave the heavy stuff until my uncle comes over o visit today, as he'd be happy to help her move everything.
Strange, mind, she once moved all the furniture of her bedroom around whilst I went to pick her up some shopping in Asda, once. I said 'wait until I get back and you can tell me where to put things and I will move them. I returned with her food shopping an hour later and she had finished. I told her off, but I felt secretly proud and impressed.