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Sir Taxalot
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 5:13 |
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Heavy shit, man, I'm sorry to hear all of that. I watched some of the video and it sounds traumatic.
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Kern
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 8:32 |
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Really sorry to hear that Hearthly. Deepest sympathies.
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MaliA
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 8:47 |
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Sorry, mate.
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DavPaz
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 9:38 |
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Sorry to hear that bud. Losing a parent is never easy
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Malc
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 9:55 |
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Isn't that lovely? |
Joined: 30th Mar, 2008 Posts: 10696 Location: Devon
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I'm so sorry to hear that.
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 11:26 |
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So sorry to read this, Hearthly.
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TheVision
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 11:59 |
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Joined: 30th Mar, 2008 Posts: 16911 Location: Parts unknown
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Sorry to hear this. It's horrible losing a parent.
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GazChap
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 13:19 |
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gooby pls |
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My condolences, Hearthly 
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 16:04 |
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Very sorry for your loss. Remember him well x
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Tue May 09, 2023 19:18 |
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Hearthly
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Thu May 11, 2023 9:09 |
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Thanks for the thoughts folks, it's been a pretty horrible time and we haven't even had the funeral yet. (That's on the 24th.) Making the video was actually quite a useful and cathartic process, even if the story isn't finished yet.
The death was unexpected, and my dad didn't have a will, so that's added a whole new wall of bureaucracy to everything. Plus the police smashed his kitchen wall to bits when they were forcing entry on a welfare visit (concerned neighbour) after screwing up the hospital check and not actually checking the hospital my dad was in. That's left us with £7500 of damage to his property to get sorted. (When you go through a high security door with a triple-point locking mechanism that in the building trade is known as a 'wall buster', turns out there's a good chance you'll take the wall out.)
I have been making sure I tell Mrs Hearthly that I love her every single day, because I have been made acutely aware that tomorrow is not guaranteed.
At least I got back to the UK to see my dad whilst he was still conscious and able to speak to us, twelve hours later he was in a medically induced coma that he never came out of.
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Post subject: Re: The 'NAY!' Thread Posted: Thu May 11, 2023 9:23 |
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Unpossible! |
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I hope making the video was good therapy for you man. You have a very lively and engaging style when you're off the cuff. You should do a podcast.
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