Think I've had enough relationship for a bit thanks
(~8.5 years)
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| Author: | Dr Lave [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:09 ] |
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4.5 years properly. Before that there was a period of being on and off - she went to live abroad for a year and we realised it would be silly to stay together as we had only just got together. So we got together so slowly that we don't have an anniversy! HUZZAH! |
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| Author: | ElephantBanjoGnome [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:12 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Mr Chris wrote: I think the "why" is eluding us. Is it because you ate all the food? Mutual decision that a bit of space would be good. Highly intelligent dealings. Also, just over 3 years here. |
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:13 ] |
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I reckon it was the food thing. Craster wrote: 11 years in November. 11 years in February. 2013. |
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| Author: | Cras [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:22 ] |
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Ian Osborne wrote: So who's been in their relationship the longest? Their romantic relationship? I've had 'a relationship' with Mr Chris for 7 years longer than with my wife. And with his wife for 8 years longer than that. |
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:23 ] |
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Craster wrote: Ian Osborne wrote: So who's been in their relationship the longest? Their romantic relationship? I've had 'a relationship' with Mr Chris for 7 years longer than with my wife. And with his wife for 8 years longer than that. I have nuddy photos of the pair of you and another girl. Oh yes. Yet another unhappy relationship on the poll! Man, this is making me really sad. I can just imagine the heavy heart with which that button was clicked, perhaps with a small accompanying sigh. *sobs*. |
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| Author: | Cras [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:24 ] |
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And that was only last month. |
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| Author: | Dudley [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:29 ] |
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Mr Chris wrote: Yet another unhappy relationship on the poll! Man, this is making me really sad. I can just imagine the heavy heart with which that button was clicked, perhaps with a small accompanying sigh. *sobs*. But on the upside, a doubling of choice for our not so mysterious impending divorcee. |
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:32 ] |
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Dudley wrote: our not so mysterious impending divorcee. Have I missed something? Yes, obviously. |
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| Author: | Cras [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:33 ] |
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Mr Chris wrote: Dudley wrote: our not so mysterious impending divorcee. Have I missed something? Yes, obviously. One person has said that they are unhappily married and possibly awaiting a divorce. |
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:34 ] |
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Craster wrote: Mr Chris wrote: Dudley wrote: our not so mysterious impending divorcee. Have I missed something? Yes, obviously. One person has said that they are unhappily married and possibly awaiting a divorce. Yes, I know the poll shows one entry for that, as I have eyes and I've already commented on it some while ago. I was querying the "not so mysterious" bit, you buffoon. |
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| Author: | Cras [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:35 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Mr Chris wrote: Craster wrote: Mr Chris wrote: Dudley wrote: our not so mysterious impending divorcee. Have I missed something? Yes, obviously. One person has said that they are unhappily married and possibly awaiting a divorce. Yes, I know, as I've already commented on someone clickign on that. I was querying the "not so mysterious" bit, you buffoon. Ah - I missed that. Obviously. |
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| Author: | JamesOff [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:36 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Think I've had enough relationship for a bit thanks (~8.5 years)
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| Author: | Plissken [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:36 ] |
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Ian Osborne wrote: So who's been in their relationship the longest? 11 years, 4 and a half months. |
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| Author: | Ian Osborne [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:38 ] |
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Bloody amateurs! 20 years next March here. God, I feel old now... |
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| Author: | Ramsea [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:40 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Mr Chris wrote: DBSnappa wrote: Mr Chris wrote: You've left off the "open marriage"/ "in a relationship but we go swinging!" options. There must be at least *one* on this board. I think Gaywood might fall into one of these  How do I know? Well, he owns a caravan. What other evidence do you need for someone under the age of 50 to own a towable bed and shelter? Hahahaha! Excellent. There will be ribbage next time he's on here then. I thought Gaywood was an extra safe kinda guy? Flis and I have been together for coming up to 9 years and married for nearly 6 (I think) Im amazed we've been together this long as I am so good at "doing her noy in" Congrats Ian, unless of course you're in the unhappily married section. |
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| Author: | JamesOff [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:41 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Ramsea wrote: unhappily married section. No, it's not him 
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:41 ] |
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Haaaang on - I thought you said on that other thread that flis was your sister? The stories about your island are true, aren't they? |
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| Author: | Cras [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:44 ] |
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Mr Chris wrote: Haaaang on - I thought you said on that other thread that flis was your sister? The stories about your island are true, aren't they? Yeah, I saw that and it confused the fuck out of me. |
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| Author: | Zio [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:44 ] |
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JamesOff wrote: Ramsea wrote: unhappily married section. No, it's not him That's very sad dude. I thought I should say that, since no other cunt looks like they're going to. |
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| Author: | MrChris [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:44 ] |
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Zio wrote: JamesOff wrote: Ramsea wrote: unhappily married section. No, it's not him That's very sad dude. I thought I should say that, since no other cunt looks like they're going to. Give us a chance, I was in mid-squabble. That's tough breaks, james - sorry to hear it. |
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| Author: | Ramsea [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:45 ] |
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JamesOff wrote: Ramsea wrote: unhappily married section. No, it's not him Awww sorry to hear that chap...offers a manhug. Mr Chris wrote: Haaaang on - I thought you said on that other thread that flis was your sister? The stories about your island are true, aren't they? Your skills of deduction are wasted Mr Chris; you should've be a crime detective.  No Flis is not my sister, it was a subtle joke. Sorry to have confused y'all. |
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| Author: | JamesOff [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:48 ] |
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Thanks folkses... we're separating at the moment so will be divorcing in a few years. We're still friends but it's weird being around her at the moment. I'm moving out next week though so hopefully I'll feel a lot better after that. Meh
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| Author: | Dudley [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:51 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Mr Chris wrote: Craster wrote: Mr Chris wrote: Dudley wrote: our not so mysterious impending divorcee. Have I missed something? Yes, obviously. One person has said that they are unhappily married and possibly awaiting a divorce. Yes, I know the poll shows one entry for that, as I have eyes and I've already commented on it some while ago. I was querying the "not so mysterious" bit, you buffoon. If you read up now, it's pretty obvious isn't it? Zio wrote: That's very sad dude. I thought I should say that, since no other cunt looks like they're going to. In my defence, I've said it before 
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| Author: | Zio [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:53 ] |
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Very shitty sir, you have my sincerest sympathies. It's a cliche, but things will get better. Myself and my ex-fiance had a horrendously messy breakup, but we've been friends now for quite a while. Hard to believe there was such animosity now! The only downside being our friendship makes it tricky for either party to truly move on. Edit: Duds, my apologies. The rest of you are still cunts though.* *Joke 
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| Author: | The Rev Owen [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 16:55 ] |
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JamesOff wrote: Thanks folkses... we're separating at the moment so will be divorcing in a few years. We're still friends but it's weird being around her at the moment. I'm moving out next week though so hopefully I'll feel a lot better after that. Meh I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it all goes as well as it possibly can and you find your happy again soon. |
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| Author: | Goddess Jasmine [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 17:22 ] |
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JamesOff wrote: Thanks folkses... we're separating at the moment so will be divorcing in a few years. We're still friends but it's weird being around her at the moment. I'm moving out next week though so hopefully I'll feel a lot better after that. Meh Sorry to hear that James. I hope you manage to get it all sorted quickly and with as little mess as possible.
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| Author: | sinister agent [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 20:34 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
JamesOff wrote: Thanks folkses... we're separating at the moment so will be divorcing in a few years. We're still friends but it's weird being around her at the moment. I'm moving out next week though so hopefully I'll feel a lot better after that. Meh Try to think of the things you'll be able to do in your new digs that you couldn't before. Rough times call for the squeezing of the maximum amount of joy from the tiniest things. It can go a long way. Good luck, man. |
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| Author: | Dudley [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 21:10 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
He's got a 360 now, he'll be fiiiiiiinnnne
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| Author: | ElephantBanjoGnome [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 22:06 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Living by yourself is awesome, I know. For the last 3 weeks I've had a deilirious kind of existance where I stumble home from work, eat the tastiest looking patch of dirt off the kitchen floor, and then play EVE until 2.30am at which point I sleep briefly before getting up, a zombie, and going into work, occasionally logging in to EVE to change skill training. I'd have never been able to do this while chained down by the expectations of a live-in partner
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| Author: | Malc [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 22:27 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Ian Osborne wrote: So who's been in their relationship the longest? Almost 13 years here (November will take it there) Malc |
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| Author: | sinister agent [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 22:52 ] |
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ComicalGnomes wrote: Living by yourself is awesome, I know. Bastard. I've looked in vain for a place I can have to myself and not die. Sob, oogh. |
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| Author: | Goddess Jasmine [ Fri Aug 29, 2008 23:31 ] |
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I can't wait to live on my own! |
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| Author: | Malc [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 0:22 ] |
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Goddess Jasmine wrote: I can't wait to live on my own! I've never lived on my own, straight from parents to living with my first serious relationship (I had been going out with her for about 3 years at that point) and still in that relationship (and living with her) now. Malc |
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| Author: | DBSnappa [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 14:31 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
16 years last Tuesday. |
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| Author: | Ian Osborne [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 15:37 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
"I'm still the champ-eee-on!"  I've only lived on my own very briefly. I left home to live a student life, and met my partner there. After graduating, I lived alone for a year or so in a Ludlow bedsit before setting up house with my partner. We've lived together ever since. |
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| Author: | Dimrill [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 16:28 ] |
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13 years with the missus, been engaged for.... 8 or so, yes 8. |
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| Author: | The Rev Owen [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 17:12 ] |
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I lived on my own for ten years or so. I prefer living on my own to living with anyone except my wife. Living with my wife is like living alone, but with great company. If you know what I mean. |
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| Author: | Dudley [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 17:36 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
Be nice to be able to come close to being able to afford to live on my own. It's not just the doubling of rent, it would involve a trebling of my council tax and not doubt a rise in most utility bills too. |
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| Author: | ElephantBanjoGnome [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 17:55 ] |
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I do manage my bills v. strictly. and have a seperate 'bills' bank account where all the DD's are set up. Helps me realise exactly how much living costs a month, and also means if some fucking company tries to take £500 or something unexpectedly, it won't work and won't leave me without cash until the problem is sorted. |
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| Author: | Dr Lave [ Sat Aug 30, 2008 18:01 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
ComicalGnomes wrote: I do manage my bills v. strictly. and have a seperate 'bills' bank account where all the DD's are set up. Helps me realise exactly how much living costs a month, and also means if some fucking company tries to take £500 or something unexpectedly, it won't work and won't leave me without cash until the problem is sorted. I need to do this. This is a good idea. Thanks CG. |
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| Author: | AceAceBaby [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:22 ] |
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None of the above. |
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| Author: | Mimi [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:34 ] |
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Dimrill wrote: 13 years with the missus, been engaged for.... 8 or so, yes 8. Why only eight if you have been together for 13 years? |
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| Author: | Dimrill [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:49 ] |
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Money needed to buy the ring really. Poor college students and everything. |
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| Author: | Mimi [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:12 ] |
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Oh, hehe, no, I don't mean that. I mean, why when people are asking who's been together the longest do you only count the eight ears that you have been engaged? By that measure Craig and I have never been together, though we have for seven years
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| Author: | Goddess Jasmine [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:20 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
I think he meant they have been together for 13 years, but only engaged for 8 years. I don't think he was using the length of the engagement as the length of the relationship - just offering it up as extra information.
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| Author: | Dimrill [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:51 ] |
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What Jazzy said. I still don't understand what you're on about Meems  We got engaged in our fifth year of seeing each other.
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| Author: | Mimi [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:15 ] |
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I read the way you phrased it wrongly I read: Quote: 13 years with the missus, been engaged for.... 8 or so, yes 8. as: 13 years with the misses, been engaged for.... 8, so yes [we've been together for] 8. Whereas what it seems you actually wrote and my morning brain did not compute was: 13 years with the missus, been engaged for.... 8 or so, [hold on, let me count properly how many years we have been engaged], yes 8. Sorry, just me not reading it correctly. |
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| Author: | Dudley [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:18 ] |
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* Makes note to never let Mimi proof read any important contracts * |
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| Author: | GazChap [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:19 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
JamesOff wrote: Thanks folkses... we're separating at the moment so will be divorcing in a few years. We're still friends but it's weird being around her at the moment. I'm moving out next week though so hopefully I'll feel a lot better after that. I dunno the circumstances surrounding your split, but I know exactly what you're going through (being a divorcee), especially with the weird atmosphere at home and moving out before she does. If you wanna talk about anything, hit me up on PM - happy to offer any advice or a shoulder to blab your manly eyes out on if you need one
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| Author: | Plissken [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 14:39 ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Relationships |
GazChap wrote: If you wanna talk about anything, hit me up on PM - happy to offer any advice or a shoulder to blab your manly eyes out on if you need one Ian Cognito said something very apposite. "When a girl splits up with a bloke, she sits down in front of a special video with some tissues and some chocolates. Us blokes, we do the same. But without the chocolates." |
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