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Author:  Malabelm [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:12 ]
Post subject:  Parents and Kids

kalmar wrote:
If you're so low income you can't afford a one-off £20 you have no business owning a dog IMHO.


Or children.

Author:  kalmar [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:12 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

That.

Author:  Grim... [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:12 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

Malabar Front wrote:
kalmar wrote:
If you're so low income you can't afford a one-off £20 you have no business owning a dog IMHO.

Or children.

The state will pay for your children, though ?:|

Author:  Malabelm [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:15 ]
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Grim... wrote:
The state will pay for your children, though ?:|


Yeah, depressingly. For some reason excluding people too poor to raise children with their own money isn't morally acceptable. But people will have children regardless, and it's even worse to let them suffer just because their parents are stupid. Oh well.

Author:  chinnyhill10 [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:15 ]
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Grim... wrote:
chinnyhill10 wrote:
Grim... wrote:
kalmar wrote:

Good.


I demand all children are microchipped, tagged, and are muzzled when in public.

I do not consider this unreasonable. That is all.

Microchips aren't just for finding owners of bad children (like Venables). They are also for finding the owners of good children that are lost (like Maddie), or finding out who left the child to starve in a bag (like that baby left outside the Muslim centre the other day).



FTFY with examples.

Author:  sdg [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:21 ]
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Grim... wrote:
Malabar Front wrote:
kalmar wrote:
If you're so low income you can't afford a one-off £20 you have no business owning a dog IMHO.

Or children.

The state will pay for your children, though ?:|


When I started going to college in Kilmarnock I was very depressed to discover that a lot of my classmates friends had planned pregnancies at 15 and 16 to get a 'free' house off the council with their partner. ?:| Some of my classmates seemed to be considering doing it as well and just giving up on getting a trade. :'(

Author:  Grim... [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:31 ]
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Malabar Front wrote:
Grim... wrote:
The state will pay for your children, though ?:|

Yeah, depressingly. For some reason excluding people too poor to raise children with their own money isn't morally acceptable. But people will have children regardless, and it's even worse to let them suffer just because their parents are stupid. Oh well.

What's the solution, though? I mean, how would you stop people who didn't have much money from having kids? And what happens if you are rich and get pregnant, but then loose all your money?

Of course, some people don't have much money and are still excellent parents and raise their kids well.

Author:  MrChris [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:37 ]
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Grim... wrote:
Malabar Front wrote:
Grim... wrote:
The state will pay for your children, though ?:|

Yeah, depressingly. For some reason excluding people too poor to raise children with their own money isn't morally acceptable. But people will have children regardless, and it's even worse to let them suffer just because their parents are stupid. Oh well.

What's the solution, though? I mean, how would you stop people who didn't have much money from having kids? And what happens if you are rich and get pregnant, but then loose all your money?

Of course, some people don't have much money and are still excellent parents and raise their kids well.

Reversibly sterilise everyone at birth, and then only undo it when they pass a test and get a parenting licence. Money is not an issue, but parenting ability and willingness to actually, you know, be a good parent will be.

Author:  Doctor Glyndwr [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:42 ]
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That's a Brave New World you are describing there, Chris.

Author:  MrChris [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:42 ]
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Doctor Glyndwr wrote:
That's a Brave New World you are describing there, Chris.

I've come up with a natty flag for my Brave New World based on some old Hindu symbology, but reversed. It would symbolise rebirth or something.

Author:  JohnCoffey [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:44 ]
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Doctor Glyndwr wrote:
That's a Brave New World you are describing there, Chris.


Yeah. It would fuck Jeremy Kyle.

Author:  chinnyhill10 [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:47 ]
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Mr Kissyfur wrote:
Doctor Glyndwr wrote:
That's a Brave New World you are describing there, Chris.

I've come up with a natty flag based on some old Hindu symbology, but reversed. It would symbolise rebirth or something.


Or you could just wear some dark sunglasses and Tip-Ex "ATTITUDE" onto them.

Author:  Malabelm [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:48 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

Grim... wrote:
What's the solution, though? I mean, how would you stop people who didn't have much money from having kids? And what happens if you are rich and get pregnant, but then loose all your money?

Of course, some people don't have much money and are still excellent parents and raise their kids well.


Indeed. I'm not sure there's anything you can do, or anything you should do. I'm not sure.

But people shouldn't be able to choose ‘Leave school and have kids’ as a career choice, all the same.

Author:  Grim... [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:49 ]
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Mr Kissyfur wrote:
Reversibly sterilise everyone at birth, and then only undo it when they pass a test and get a parenting licence. Money is not an issue, but parenting ability and willingness to actually, you know, be a good parent will be.

Plenty of good kids come from bad parents.

Author:  ApplePieOfDestiny [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:51 ]
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Doctor Glyndwr wrote:
That's a Brave New World you are describing there, Chris.

Not brave enough.

Author:  kalmar [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:52 ]
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Nah it's in the genes innit.

Author:  MrChris [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:52 ]
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Grim... wrote:
Mr Kissyfur wrote:
Reversibly sterilise everyone at birth, and then only undo it when they pass a test and get a parenting licence. Money is not an issue, but parenting ability and willingness to actually, you know, be a good parent will be.

Plenty of good kids come from bad parents.

Goodness isn't genetic, then, but badness is? ;)

Well, maybe, but if we *can* do something, why take that risk? Only allow good parents to have kids, and we'll increase the percentage of good kids. Plus, we're overpopulated anyway, so anything that also reduces the population is a good thing.

Author:  Grim... [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:58 ]
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The population is certainly too high. But what would be on the good parent test? Lend them a baby for a week?

Also, I wasn't talking about genetics, Craster was.

Author:  MaliA [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 12:59 ]
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Why do people think that the population is too high?

Author:  MrChris [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 13:00 ]
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Grim... wrote:
The population is certainly too high. But what would be on the good parent test? Lend them a baby for a week?
]"Do you read the Daily Mail?" yes = fail.

I'm not sure whaty it would be - but I'm sure some clever people who do social sciences and psychology and that could work one up that had a fair degree of accuracy in predicting the good ones.

Quote:
Also, I wasn't talking about genetics, Craster was.


I know, chap.

MaliA wrote:
Why do people think that the population is too high?


The queues at the post office.

Author:  DBSnappa [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 13:47 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

Mr Kissyfur wrote:
Grim... wrote:
Malabar Front wrote:
Grim... wrote:
The state will pay for your children, though ?:|

Yeah, depressingly. For some reason excluding people too poor to raise children with their own money isn't morally acceptable. But people will have children regardless, and it's even worse to let them suffer just because their parents are stupid. Oh well.

What's the solution, though? I mean, how would you stop people who didn't have much money from having kids? And what happens if you are rich and get pregnant, but then loose all your money?

Of course, some people don't have much money and are still excellent parents and raise their kids well.

Reversibly sterilise everyone at birth, and then only undo it when they pass a test and get a parenting licence. Money is not an issue, but parenting ability and willingness to actually, you know, be a good parent will be.


It's not people getting pregnant that is the problem, more the kind of people getting pregnant. Middle class degree educated people are the worst offenders with a lot of them either never having children or leaving it very late to do so. The population of this country is already getting old and I think the stats are quite alarming that nearly 50% of the population is over 50 or soon will be. Ask yourself this? Who's going to fund the state in your dotage? Or will you ever be able to afford to retire?

Quick vox pop, how many 25-40 something degree educated well paid members in here aren't parents yet?

Author:  DavPaz [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 13:48 ]
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I'm 29, married, degree educated and childless, FYI

Author:  TheVision [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 13:49 ]
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I haven't got a degree but other than that, I fit into that catagory.

Author:  MrChris [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 13:54 ]
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I for one would welcome a eugenics thread.

Author:  Cras [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:11 ]
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DBSnappa wrote:
Middle class degree educated people are the worst offenders with a lot of them either never having children


Wait, what?

Quote:
Who's going to fund the state in your dotage? Or will you ever be able to afford to retire?


Call me crazy, but which bit of the state? I'll still be paying tax on my earnings, even after I've retired. I'll still be paying car tax, VAT, and I'll still have private medical cover. All the businesses I'll still be patronising will still be paying corporation tax on their earnings. A declining population may have declining GDP, but it has declining costs, too.

Author:  Zardoz [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:24 ]
Post subject:  Re: Parents and Kids

I've got a degree, I'm not rich and I have a kid, I'm married* and I'm 35.

*sorry ladies.

Author:  Sir Taxalot [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:28 ]
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DavPaz wrote:
I'm 29, married, degree educated and childless, FYI


Yeah, me too (and Lady T, well, she's a little bit younger than I am).

Author:  kalmar [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:30 ]
Post subject:  Re: Parents and Kids

The lady's not for turning.


So, kid insurance eh?

Author:  DBSnappa [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

Craster wrote:
DBSnappa wrote:
Middle class degree educated people are the worst offenders with a lot of them either never having children


Wait, what?

Quote:
Who's going to fund the state in your dotage? Or will you ever be able to afford to retire?


Call me crazy, but which bit of the state? I'll still be paying tax on my earnings, even after I've retired. I'll still be paying car tax, VAT, and I'll still have private medical cover. All the businesses I'll still be patronising will still be paying corporation tax on their earnings. A declining population may have declining GDP, but it has declining costs, too.


The bit of the state that funds morons breeding, obviously ;)

Yeah, have you seen how much elderly care costs?

Author:  Cras [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:36 ]
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Heh. I'll not make it to elderly care. And if I did, my lack of kids would mean I have a house and all my wordly possessions to rinse through to pay for it.

I'm still confused as to what you think I'm the worst offender of.

Author:  Zardoz [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 14:37 ]
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Can I have your Camera?

Author:  Malabelm [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 15:11 ]
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Can I have The Saboteur?

Author:  Cras [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 15:12 ]
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Nah, I'll give it to someone who can handle the tank-driving bits.

Author:  sinister agent [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 22:37 ]
Post subject:  Re: Bits and Bobs 18: The Middle Way

DBSnappa wrote:
It's not people getting pregnant that is the problem, more the kind of people getting pregnant. Middle class degree educated people are the worst offenders with a lot of them either never having children or leaving it very late to do so.


Um... so? Fewer people having kids = a good thing. And even assuming that's accurate (which I doubt - most of the nobbier type of middle class people I know are just gagging to spawn a little Tarquin and Henrietta to live through vicariously), why is that a bad thing, exactly? Being middle class and having a degree doesn't mean you're genetically superior or a better parent than anyone else. Hell, look at the proportion of middle class teenagers who commit suicide, get fucked off their face on drugs and crash four cars, or hooked on fruit machines or whatever.

Mrrrr Chrrrr wrote:
"Do you read the Daily Mail?" yes = fail.


Oi. My mum reads the daily mail, and she's ... oh, right. Good point.

Author:  Grim... [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 23:55 ]
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sinister agent wrote:
Fewer people having kids = a good thing.

Not in the short term.

Author:  TheAlbin0Kid [ Wed Mar 10, 2010 0:22 ]
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Grim... wrote:
sinister agent wrote:
Fewer people having kids = a good thing.

Not in the short term.

It strikes me that it is the victory of short-term thinking over long-term thinking that is actually at the crux of these problems. I'd elaborate, but it will be long and I'm sleepy. Pretend I said something profound please.

Author:  Curiosity [ Wed Mar 10, 2010 0:40 ]
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Craster wrote:
I'm still confused as to what you think I'm the worst offender of.


I was making a spreadsheet of this, but I ran out of rows...

Author:  DavPaz [ Wed Mar 10, 2010 9:59 ]
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TheAlbin0Kid wrote:
Pretend I said something profound please.

Good point. Discussion over

Author:  Cras [ Wed Mar 10, 2010 10:07 ]
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Curiosity wrote:
Craster wrote:
I'm still confused as to what you think I'm the worst offender of.


I was making a spreadsheet of this, but I ran out of rows...


:kiss:

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