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Author:  MaliA [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 20:21 ]
Post subject:  Facebook

So, what is "acceptable stalking"?

Discuss.

Author:  ElephantBanjoGnome [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 20:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

When I started my new job, one of the colleagues I was due to work with, and indeed still have to speak to occasionally, knew all about me, because the weirdass little fucker had googled me. He found PTS, my running page, and had read it all. The fucking freak.

It's for this reason my facebook privacy settings are max. Even my friends can barely see me.

Therefore, anything the person has made publically available is fair game, which if they're clever extends to nothing more than their name and a profile pic thumbnail.

Author:  Myfinger [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 20:48 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

ComicalGnomes wrote:
the weirdass little fucker had googled me

He'll love reading this then...

Author:  ElephantBanjoGnome [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 21:59 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Myfinger wrote:
ComicalGnomes wrote:
the weirdass little fucker had googled me

He'll love reading this then...

It's worrying when someone stalks you, isn't it, Mr Wicket Keeper at Caerleon? ;)

Author:  Dudley [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:05 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

I stalk Comicalgnomes.

I'm wearing his T-shirt.

Author:  Myfinger [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:09 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

ComicalGnomes wrote:
Myfinger wrote:
ComicalGnomes wrote:
the weirdass little fucker had googled me

He'll love reading this then...

It's worrying when someone stalks you, isn't it, Mr Wicket Keeper at Caerleon? ;)

Haha! I'm an easy man to stalk thanks to my almost unique name. Although I am impressed nonetheless Holmes.

Despite the sound of a gauntlet striking the ground ringing in my ears, I am not about to test your iron curtain of online security. For a start I lack the skill :) !

Author:  ElephantBanjoGnome [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:14 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Dudley wrote:
I stalk Comicalgnomes.

I'm wearing his T-shirt.

Does it excite you to know that that t-shirt was once IN MY HANDS?

It's special, isn't it? I could have rubbed it against any part of me before sending it to you.

Author:  Bobbyaro [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:15 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

My girlfriend's company's HR department use FB when hiring people to see how much they lie on their CV, etc. They have turned a number of people down based upon FB data apparently.

Author:  Myfinger [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:21 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Bobbyaro wrote:
My girlfriend's company's HR department use FB when hiring people to see how much they lie on their CV, etc. They have turned a number of people down based upon FB data apparently.

Big debate in HR about this at the moment (CG knows this already as he knows me better than I do). I don't like it personally. I mean a lot of people (inlcuding me) draw a strong distinction between work and play. I think you should go off what you see in an interview / work environment.

Also, I'm not 100% clear how you can uncover CV lies on Facebook? Maybe job or reason for leaving. I'd be interested to hear what they have uncovered.

Author:  Doctor Glyndwr [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:29 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Myfinger wrote:
Big debate in HR about this at the moment (CG knows this already as he knows me better than I do).
Don't get too spooked. The lame bastard just asked me. Meanwhile I once sent him an unsolicited pic of his feyonce. He fails at cyberstalking, whereas I piss excellence[1].

The FB/job app thing is interesting. I think we're in a transition period; our generation is comfortable revealing stuff online, drunken photos and such, that the generation above us are horrified at; even though everyone is doing it. Also, I'm guessing you can't admit that you didn't hire someone because of Facebook.

[1] super secret stalking injoke which will only be understood by one beexer.

Author:  Dudley [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:30 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Myfinger wrote:
Bobbyaro wrote:
My girlfriend's company's HR department use FB when hiring people to see how much they lie on their CV, etc. They have turned a number of people down based upon FB data apparently.

Big debate in HR about this at the moment (CG knows this already as he knows me better than I do). I don't like it personally. I mean a lot of people (inlcuding me) draw a strong distinction between work and play. I think you should go off what you see in an interview / work environment.

Also, I'm not 100% clear how you can uncover CV lies on Facebook? Maybe job or reason for leaving. I'd be interested to hear what they have uncovered.

If you leave your profile open to non-friends you deserve it.

Author:  ElephantBanjoGnome [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

richardgaywood wrote:
Myfinger wrote:
Big debate in HR about this at the moment (CG knows this already as he knows me better than I do).
Don't get too spooked. The lame bastard just asked me.

BETRAYED.

I'm a smart man's stalker. Rather than quizzing Google it's way faster and easier just to ask someone who knows you. Offer the Dr. some curry and he'll tell you whatever you want to know.

Author:  Doctor Glyndwr [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 22:33 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

ComicalGnomes wrote:
BETRAYED.
JUDASPWN.

Author:  CraigGrannell [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 23:26 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Bobbyaro wrote:
My girlfriend's company's HR department use FB when hiring people to see how much they lie on their CV, etc. They have turned a number of people down based upon FB data apparently.

A lot of companies look at FB status updates to see if people are lying through their teeth about, say, being ill, too.

Author:  Shin [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 23:46 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

CraigGrannell wrote:
Bobbyaro wrote:
My girlfriend's company's HR department use FB when hiring people to see how much they lie on their CV, etc. They have turned a number of people down based upon FB data apparently.

A lot of companies look at FB status updates to see if people are lying through their teeth about, say, being ill, too.


Aw balls...

Author:  Dudley [ Tue Oct 07, 2008 23:50 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

"Katania is lying to work about being ill.... so long suckers!"

Author:  GazChap [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 9:36 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

It scares me to think that in 25 years time the people running the country (and probably others too) are going to be the Facebook/Myspace generation.

I don't want to live in a world where the person responsible for pressing "the" button grew up playing Command & Conquer or DEFCON.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 9:48 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Dudley wrote:
"Katania is lying to work about being ill.... so long suckers!"


''Katania has had her facebook profile hacked! What are the chances of that?!''

Would that be a good cover story you think? :s

I have a lot of family adding me recently, it's quite nice :)

Author:  Ian Osborne [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:30 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Myfinger wrote:
Also, I'm not 100% clear how you can uncover CV lies on Facebook? Maybe job or reason for leaving. I'd be interested to hear what they have uncovered.

Anyone who lies on a CV and broadcasts the fact on FB deserves not to get the job.

Author:  MrChris [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

"FBuser is gloating about having lied on his CV"

I mean, what? How?

Author:  Bobbyaro [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:35 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

I don't know the full details of it, but basically I think one of them said something in the interview, and when searched for on FB, it was found to be a blatant lie.

I think another one was something really stupid aswell, like:

"William has just spent an hour bullshitting in an interview" Or somesuch.

Quote:

A lot of companies look at FB status updates to see if people are lying through their teeth about, say, being ill, too.



As long as they don't think to check my Live status, I should be okay!

Author:  metalangel [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:41 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

This is exactly why I *didn't* want to add my team leader as a friend.

And is a contributing factor to not touching Facebook any more.

Author:  Ian Osborne [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:41 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Yeah, if a CV lists a current occupation as 'print media distribution executive' and his FB profile says 'paper boy', you know he's guilding the lilly.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:42 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Ian Osborne wrote:
you know he's guilding the lilly.


:this: is my phrase of the week!

Author:  MrChris [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:43 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Ian Osborne wrote:
Yeah, if a CV lists a current occupation as 'print media distribution executive' and his FB profile says 'paper boy', you know he's guilding the lilly.

Lillies have their own guilds? "The Worshipful Guild of Sunchasers and Prettiness"

Author:  Ian Osborne [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:50 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Mr Chris wrote:
Ian Osborne wrote:
Yeah, if a CV lists a current occupation as 'print media distribution executive' and his FB profile says 'paper boy', you know he's guilding the lilly.

Lillies have their own guilds? "The Worshipful Guild of Sunchasers and Prettiness"

Yeah, it would've helped if I'd spelt it correctly. Make that 'gilding the lily'...

Shakespeare wrote:
To gild refined gold, to paint the lily,
To throw a perfume on the violet,
To smooth the ice, or add another hue
Unto the rainbow, or with taper-light
To seek the beauteous eye of heaven to garnish,
Is wasteful and ridiculous excess
King John. Act iv. Sc. 2.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:51 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Too educated for me love. Although I loved his Macbeth, that guy was a kook! :D

Author:  Zardoz [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:52 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

This thread has thrown up more reasons why I don't use Facebook.

Utterly hateful Emoware.

Author:  MrChris [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:53 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Ian Osborne wrote:
Mr Chris wrote:
Ian Osborne wrote:
Yeah, if a CV lists a current occupation as 'print media distribution executive' and his FB profile says 'paper boy', you know he's guilding the lilly.

Lillies have their own guilds? "The Worshipful Guild of Sunchasers and Prettiness"

Yeah, it would've helped if I'd spelt it correctly. Make that 'gilding the lily'...


;)

Author:  Cras [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 11:12 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The other likely trip-up is past academic institutions. A lot of users join groups or network for places they went to school/college. If his CV says Oxbridge and his FB profile says Grimsby Community College, you're unlikely to give him a job.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 11:16 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Just don't put that info, it's not mandatory. It annoys me when people say, 'I don't like FB as people know info on you' don't put any that you don't want people to know then, dumbass

Author:  Dudley [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:05 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.

Author:  Bobbyaro [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:11 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


Get thee hence from this place.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:15 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


Where's the fun in that? I could say I'm a scientist :) that'd be great

Author:  MaliA [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:23 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Shin wrote:
Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


Where's the fun in that? I could say I'm a scientist :) that'd be great


No. It. Would. Not.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:27 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

:( but why?

Author:  MaliA [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:29 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Shin wrote:
:( but why?



Been there, done that, and got the tshirt as a leaving present.

Author:  MrChris [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:30 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

To be fair, mali, your brand of "science" was fucking monkeys for a living to try and make humanzees.

Is that right?

Author:  MaliA [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Mr Chris wrote:
To be fair, mali, your brand of "science" was fucking monkeys for a living to try and make humanzees.

Is that right?


Along those lines.

Author:  MrChris [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:32 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Thought so.

Did you get one of the humanzees as a leaving present? Did it come with its own rollerskates?

Author:  Doctor Glyndwr [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:33 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

MaliA wrote:
Mr Chris wrote:
To be fair, mali, your brand of "science" was fucking monkeys for a living to try and make humanzees.
Along those lines.
Are you anything to do with this?

Author:  MaliA [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:35 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Actually, that prompted me to look something up and I got my name on 2 papers just come out.

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:35 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Can I do the science where I get to play with chemicals then?

*Fond memories of the bunsen burner and mercury arise*

Author:  Pod [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:45 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


I do this. However; I might want to lie on facebook. Where will that lead me to?

Author:  Shin [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:46 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Pod wrote:
Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


I do this. However; I might want to lie on facebook. Where will that lead me to?


To the place that half the facebookers are currently at?

Author:  Sir Taxalot [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 12:50 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

MaliA wrote:
Shin wrote:
Dudley wrote:
The alternative of course might be to NOT lie on your CV and not pull fake sickies in the first place.


Where's the fun in that? I could say I'm a scientist :) that'd be great


No. It. Would. Not.


It could be worse.

I suppose. It's neither as exciting, nor as geeky as various TV shows make out. It's just...... *meh*

Not really selling it here. Thinking of leaving science myself.

Author:  Anderchuk [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 22:44 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

I might open a "why would anyone allow non-friends to view their profile?" group. That'd get at least a million members! All of whom wouldn't be able to view one another's info. Ace.

Author:  KovacsC [ Wed Oct 08, 2008 22:52 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

There is not a need to post your life history on face book..

If people want to do daft things and get caught out, then it is there look out.

There aere professional version of face book, that I belong to for career networking

Author:  GovernmentYard [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 1:57 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Craster wrote:
If his CV says Oxbridge and his FB profile says Grimsby Community College, you're unlikely to give him a job.


I used to go out with someone who went to both. He wasn't a man though, that would have been gay.

/edit and come to think of it she always has really fucking good jobs.

Author:  Grim... [ Thu Oct 09, 2008 22:27 ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

GazChap wrote:
It scares me to think that in 25 years time the people running the country (and probably others too) are going to be the Facebook/Myspace generation..

I have two younger brothers (in law) who are 18 and 17. A year or so ago we were talking about porn, and I was telling them that when I was their age porn was really hard to get hold of - videos were shared around school and stuff like that. They, obviously, have access to all the boobage they want thanks to the Internet. I asked them if they felt somewhat let down by sex, as it's nothing like porn films. They looked at me blankly for a bit, and further investigation revealed that because all the girls are watching the same porn, that's their generations sex education, so that's the way they have sex.

Lucky buggers.

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