Nearly did. End of (miserable) school, girl I fancied going out with utter prick who screwed my only friend at school over* (and who asked her out via email - email - the day before I went up to ask her out. Gnnnngh. Still, on the plus side he's fat now as well as cowardly), angry, depressed, really fucked up family stuff, unable to think of anything worth putting up with all this crap, etc. I fortunately had a friend who had introduced me to some people he knew and told me to transfer to his 6th form, where he would make sure I had a warm welcome.
I pretty much told myself that I'd get through the summer somehow and see if having at least somewhere to go that wasn't filled almost exclusively with loathsome cunts made things any better. It did, I met some truly awesome people I still see whenever possible, a chum who loved AP, and a gorgeous and delightfully mad girlfriend. All these people helped me deal with Stuff and realise how much Stuff so many other people have, and I've since pulled my head at least partway out of my arse and become a scourge of Stuff for other people. When I have the strength, obviously.
I've been extraordinarily lucky in that nobody close to me has committed suicide. My dad's mum tried to hang herself in my bedroom when I was a kid, and a very close friend took an overdose last year (while I was having the Best Weekend Of My Life with my ex. Life's a cunt like that sometimes), but that's about it. Many of my closest friends self harm, or did for years, and I'm having trouble thinking of people I know who weren't abused and/or sexually assaulted, but so far nobody's quite taken the final step. I hope that continues, but I have a serious case of Samaritan Syndrome, and will be very surprised if it does.
*He and his pathetic mates (who had known him for years) literally ran off, giggling, and avoided him from then on, though took ever yop portunity to call out "BECAUSE HE'S A PRICK!" from across the room when someone else asked why they'd been such children. They tried to get me along, but I told them all to fuck off, asked them individually why they did it, and none of them could come up with a reason. Two of them were jealous because he was funnier and smarter than them and made them look bad, and the third had no spine, so fuck 'em. I spent the next few years deliberately talking to them very loudly while in mixed company, so that they'd try to childishly ignore me, and everyone would think they were being a dick. Also I kicked one of them in the knee while playing basketball once and got off scot free, because of course he had to ignore me. So I did it another five or six times. Petty, but hey, I was young.
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