The 'NAY!' Thread

MaliA · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 21:51

Goddess Jasmine wrote:

Thanks Bobby and Mali. Xxx

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You take care. I don't think there's much more I can say. Love you, J. Thinking of you.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 21:52

MaliA wrote:

Goddess Jasmine wrote:

Thanks Bobby and Mali. Xxx

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You take care. I don't think there's much more I can say. Love you, J. Thinking of you.

Thanks hun, love you too. Xxx

MrChris · **Joined:** 1st Apr, 2008 **Posts:** 30498

Lord, that's awful. Sorry gj, lots of hugs xxxx

Bobbyaro · **Joined:** 18th Apr, 2008 **Posts:** 11843

yeah, all of the hugs should be arriving right about ... now.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 22:19

Thanks guys, you are all of the awesome. :luv:

xxx

DavPaz · **Joined:** 27th Jun, 2008 **Posts:** 38460

Hugs, GJ. Horrible news.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 22:52

Thanks Davpaz. After drinking the vast majority of my birthday Bailey's and both kids in bed, I think it's time for an early night and a new day tomorrow. Xxx

KovacsC · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 23:08

Big hugs x

Cras · **Joined:** 30th Mar, 2008 **Posts:** 49232

What an awful day for bad news, so sorry for you Jazzy!

Huge hugs xxx

Malc · **Posted:** Fri May 22, 2015 23:29

Sorry to hear that jazzy, never nice to about the death of a loved one, never mind two in the same day

Thinking of you

Achilles · **Joined:** 15th Nov, 2008 **Posts:** 484

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Satsuma · **Joined:** 20th Apr, 2008 **Posts:** 14356

My family is having a shocking time with cancer at the minute. My mum's best friend died suddenly in December from it (about 4 weeks from diagnosis to death) then my mum's brother's wife died equally fast from breast cancer (they've always been close) in March and now my parents dog has terminal liver cancer. The cancer is 10cm and apparently there was more cancer than liver on the ultrasound. If anyone sees me on Twitter/Instagram you might have guessed I dote on my doggies and this is my dog's dad. It's heartbreaking to watch this cute dog that you've spent 12 years fussing and loving just waste away as the cancer eats at him.

Anyway, sorry to hear that GJ. Big ole hugs from me to you. xxx

KovacsC · **Posted:** Sat May 23, 2015 7:13

Sorry to hear that Sat .

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Sat May 23, 2015 9:46

Thank you for all your thoughts guys, it really does mean a lot.

Love and miss you all. Xxx

Sat, that is sad news indeed. *hugs* xx

Mimi · **Joined:** 27th Mar, 2008 **Posts:** 25588

So very sorry to hear that news, Jazzy, and for yours, Saturnalian.

It sounds like a shock of bad news for you both, and I can't really think of what else to do but offer love and sympathy to each of you.

Wishing you both happy memories of friends and family, including those pets that we count as either xxx

MaliA · **Posted:** Sat May 23, 2015 16:46

Saturnalian wrote:

My family is having a shocking time with cancer at the minute. My mum's best friend died suddenly in December from it (about 4 weeks from diagnosis to death) then my mum's brother's wife died equally fast from breast cancer (they've always been close) in March and now my parents dog has terminal liver cancer. The cancer is 10cm and apparently there was more cancer than liver on the ultrasound. If anyone sees me on Twitter/Instagram you might have guessed I dote on my doggies and this is my dog's dad. It's heartbreaking to watch this cute dog that you've spent 12 years fussing and loving just waste away as the cancer eats at him.

Anyway, sorry to hear that GJ. Big ole hugs from me to you. xxx

hugs to you, too, man

Jem · **Posted:** Tue May 26, 2015 12:42

Bit late but - huge hugs for Jazzy and Saturnalian xx

miki · **Joined:** 30th Apr, 2011 **Posts:** 1458 **Location:** NL

oh wauw, so sorry about all the loss and sadness GJ and Saturnalian

TheVision · **Posted:** Tue May 26, 2015 13:13

I fell over in my kitchen yesterday. It's not quite up to everyone else's nays at the moment, but it bloomin hurt.

Bamba · **Joined:** 25th Jul, 2010 **Posts:** 11128

Fucksticks! I had a tiny cracked bit in the top corner of my phone screen after dropping it at the weekend but it was barely noticeable so I wasn't bothered. At some point in the last few hours that's turned into a big crack across the screen starting from that original smashed bit. It's still not that noticeable but because I know it's there it's now annoying the shit out of me. This is the first time I've broke the screen on any phone I've ever owned.

Mimi · **Joined:** 27th Mar, 2008 **Posts:** 25588

Just be careful if you don't have a screen protector on, Bamba. My workfriend cracked her iPhone screen the other day and cut her hand nastily.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Tue May 26, 2015 22:02

Thanks guys, to add insult to injury it turns out that my Mother knew she was that ill, she just hadn't bothered to tell me despite me asking her to keep me informed. >:|

I hate families sometimes.

Funeral a week on Friday for my aunt (been a while since I've been to Essex). Just waiting to find out when Jess' is now. Work has been weird today. Somebody thought it was a nice idea to stick A4 colour photos of Jess next to the 'Notice to staff' as you enter the establishment. That upset a lot of people that weren't expecting it (myself included). Not much work has gone on today. I can't see tomorrow being much different. Will say we are being looked after though, management have been brill. The whole care team have come in even on their time off and we have a cousellor drafted in. No real work expected off us any time soon either. Back to a full compliment of staff tomorrow (today was a privilege day, so just skeleton staff really). Expecting more tears and hugs. ?:|

MaliA · **Posted:** Tue May 26, 2015 22:03

Expect love from us.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Tue May 26, 2015 22:05

MaliA wrote:

Expect love from us.

Thank you hun, you have really all been absolutely wonderful. :luv:

asfish · **Joined:** 5th Dec, 2010 **Posts:** 3353

Dropped my wife and son off at LHR this morning as she is going to Dublin for a week to see her parents

Normally a Yay moment for me as I get to have time to catch up in the garden and watch TV she doesn't like.

However this morning I was feeding my son his breakfast in his high chair and telling him he was going on a plane (he knows what these are and has a noise for them)

He leaned forward to get hold of me and I though he was being an imp and wanting out of the chair.

He then gaves my a big random hug

Followed by another one 5 minutes later

So pissed all over my Yay long weekend and I miss him already >:|

Jem · **Posted:** Wed May 27, 2015 15:49

My kids are in Wales with their Dad for the week - I know how you feel dude

flis · **Joined:** 26th May, 2008 **Posts:** 3333

This is the 'Nay' thread, guys. Not the 'Yay'...

ZOMG Spoiler! Click here to view!

They'll be back before you've got the last of the dried Weetabix off the the dishes

DavPaz · **Joined:** 27th Jun, 2008 **Posts:** 38460

My 2 year old wanted to come to work with me this morning. I nearly let him. I'm a soft touch.

TheVision · **Posted:** Wed May 27, 2015 16:40

DavPaz wrote:

My 2 year old wanted to come to work with me this morning. I nearly let him. I'm a soft touch.

You're a dad. You're supposed to be.

JohnCoffey · **Posted:** Wed May 27, 2015 17:26

Wow. Just found out that my great aunt was murdered and cut into pieces.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... lling.html

I'd never have guessed it was my great aunt because her real surname is Finnis.

But yeah, total and utter nay.

asfish · **Joined:** 5th Dec, 2010 **Posts:** 3353

DavPaz wrote:

My 2 year old wanted to come to work with me this morning. I nearly let him. I'm a soft touch.

Yep nothing wrong with that, I'm the easiest touch going with my boy, it makes him happy and that's all I care about at this stage.

asfish · **Joined:** 5th Dec, 2010 **Posts:** 3353

JohnCoffey wrote:

Wow. Just found out that my great aunt was murdered and cut into pieces.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... lling.html

I'd never have guessed it was my great aunt because her real surname is Finnis.

But yeah, total and utter nay.

God sorry to hear that mate >:|

JohnCoffey · **Posted:** Wed May 27, 2015 18:14

I only found out today. I don't use Facebook any more, but this morning mum noticed a post from my aunt saying how they'd just held the funeral.

It's weird. Like, really weird. You always see this sort of thing on the news and read about it in books but you never ever expect it to happen to some one you know.

And that comes from some one who has read probably close to a hundred books about serial killers and so on.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Wed May 27, 2015 20:01

JohnCoffey wrote:

It's weird. Like, really weird. You always see this sort of thing on the news and read about it in books but you never ever expect it to happen to some one you know.

And that comes from some one who has read probably close to a hundred books about serial killers and so on.

Oh God

Sorry to hear this though JC, I hope you're okay. *hugs*

Jem · **Posted:** Thu May 28, 2015 10:29

flis wrote:

This is the 'Nay' thread, guys. Not the 'Yay'...

ZOMG Spoiler! Click here to view!

:hug: They'll be back before you've got the last of the dried Weetabix off the the dishes

Heh. First few days were 'yay peace and quiet'.

Day 3-4 I started to miss them a bit.

Last night my ex screamed at my little lad (he was being mischievous) while I was on the phone to them and it took every ounce of my willpower to not drive all the way to Wales and bring them home. (I got drunk and pretended it wasn't happening instead.)

One more day, one more day.

Jem · **Posted:** Thu May 28, 2015 10:30

JohnCoffey wrote:

Wow. Just found out that my great aunt was murdered and cut into pieces.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... lling.html

I'd never have guessed it was my great aunt because her real surname is Finnis.

But yeah, total and utter nay.

Christ that's awful. So sorry

JohnCoffey · **Posted:** Thu May 28, 2015 18:30

Jem wrote:

JohnCoffey wrote:

Wow. Just found out that my great aunt was murdered and cut into pieces.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... lling.html

I'd never have guessed it was my great aunt because her real surname is Finnis.

But yeah, total and utter nay.

Christ that's awful. So sorry

I haven't seen her since I was about 7. Once my aunt died of a stroke (I was about two when that happened) that side of the family sort of faded out. Mum says she was a lovely lady though

At least they got the bastard.

markg · **Joined:** 30th Mar, 2008 **Posts:** 16558

Done something to my back and it really hurts. Fucks sake.

asfish · **Joined:** 5th Dec, 2010 **Posts:** 3353

My sons birthday in 3 weeks so I called up a local cake company to order him a digger cake

Only to be told I need to give them 8 weeks notice and the earliest they could do a cake is a month after his birthday

So home made option with toy diggers on it, I looked as some YouTube videos on how to make a digger cake and its well out of our league!

First lesson in birthday organisation learnt!

asfish · **Joined:** 5th Dec, 2010 **Posts:** 3353

markg wrote:

Done something to my back and it really hurts. Fucks sake.

Have your tried deep heat? I pulled my shoulder blade earlier in the week, I was ok at work but when sleeping the pain would wake me up at 3am. Sprayed some of that on Thursday night and pain gone!

KovacsC · **Posted:** Sat May 30, 2015 17:02

markg wrote:

Done something to my back and it really hurts. Fucks sake.

I can walk and down your back in heals if that might help

MaliA · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 6:51

Day 2 of the Galloping Trots. I blame The Child.

KovacsC · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 7:41

MaliA wrote:

Day 2 of the Galloping Trots. I blame The Child.

Oh... Get a cork

Eat cream cakes, if not sticking to the sides. Eat something fun.

MaliA · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 8:33

I have lost 7 lbs...

KovacsC · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 8:36

MaliA wrote:

I have lost 7 lbs...

Not great.

MaliA · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 9:10

KovacsC wrote:

MaliA wrote:

I have lost 7 lbs...

Not great.

No. I am fairly miserable over it all. There was loads of stuff I wanted to do this weekend, too. Instead I have drunk sugar and salt solutions and run to the bog.

Curiosity · **Posted:** Sun May 31, 2015 10:14

On the positive side, it saves having to go on a diet.

MaliA · **Posted:** Mon Jun 01, 2015 10:10

And they are back!. Yuck.

Goddess Jasmine · **Posted:** Fri Jun 05, 2015 10:21

Just off to my Aunt's funeral. Added bonus for Joans of meeting my Mother.

Mr Russell · **Joined:** 6th Apr, 2008 **Posts:** 12243

So sorry to hear about that, and for your colleague also

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