A minor nay compared to the ones above, but it seems my new neighbours who moved in during December are just completely inconsiderate.
During December they were rowdy on occasions. I figured that was going to happen - they sounded young (the walls are very thin in this street), they've moved in to their own place, it's the festive season etc, so they were bound to be a bit lively.
However, there started to be signs that there may be more to it. One day, I went to put my rubbish out and my wheelie bin was already full with someone else's rubbish. It
could have been someone else, but unlikely, but figured I'd give them the benefit of the doubt (I'm not about to go searching through the rubbish looking for an address). Then they had a couple of parcels delivered - they weren't in, so they were left with me on two occasions. Now if it was me, I'd just pop round when I was back home and ask for them, but not this couple. They were quite happy to just wait for me to take them round the next day. Again, benefit of the doubt in case they weren't left cards. Also, the general rowdiness has turned to full-on arguments, with the woman of the couple shouting her head off and there being lots of banging of furniture.
The other day though, their other neighbour popped round to see me. We'd never really spoken before, but she wanted to see if I was as fed up with them as she was. She's got an autistic son and although he's a heavy sleeper, he was being disturbed and kept awake by all the racket. So she's already been round to complain and for some reason, the woman of the couple decide to tell her their life story almost. So this neighbour filled me in on some of the details -
- This couple have been together for eight months. Considering the ferocity of the arguments, I'm not even sure why they're together, let alone thought it was a good idea to get a place together
- He hits her. But she seems to think it's ok, because she hits him too
From the noises, it's hard to tell if one is abusing the other as they both seem to go at it tooth and nail
- Another neighbour mentioned that the bloke of the couple through a pint glass out into the shared yard area, smashing it everywhere. The neighbour had to clear it up to avoid his dog walking through it.
It seems such an odd relationship. Apparently their rent is over £100 more than what I pay for this place, so if their relationship does go sour, which seems inevitable, there's no way one of them will be able to keep paying it as they're both young carers, so I'm guessing they're not on great money.
I like to think of myself as pretty tolerant; I just want a quite life, but it was 5am when they were at it last night and I'm put in the situation where I need sleep and so I'm reaching for the ear plugs just so I can get some sleep, but also aware that I should be listening to make sure one isn't abusing the other. As an example of how thin the walls are, I think at one point, I could hear their other neighbour banging on her wall to get them to shut up.
I think the weirdest thing for me is that the situation makes me feel at fault for some reason. I don't want to be the grumpy, moaning neighbour, but I've never known a couple like these.
Anyway, just wanted a bit of a moan as I'm shattered and grumpy and don't feel like starting work yet